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post #26 of 130
i didnt know paypal could take money out of your bank?
post #27 of 130
wow, I am so confused right now..
post #28 of 130
Ae you two related or same person?

I am so confused.
post #29 of 130
Thread Starter 
no.. i've been friends with Jenny and I can't open an account because someone in the past scammed my mom and there was a problem with her account.. I'm paranoid, I didn't wanna open another account under the same address

I've been using Jenny's account and i swear i shipped the package. Liz now filed the complaint and I'm stuck. Of course I'm refunding her 1500. I've been nothing but honest, why does these kinda things happen to me
post #30 of 130
edit.. welovelouie responded right as I was posting
post #31 of 130
I think filing a claim after one week is too soon.
And I think its wrong for the friend to change their mind after one week too.. That sounds like buyers remorse to me - Im sorry.
post #32 of 130
^I agree. Probably buyer's remorse (especially with the boyfriend's part in it), but I think the buyer does have an argument because, technically, the terms of the sale weren't met (timely shipping).
post #33 of 130
Maybe welovelouie could prove when it was sent by showing a pic of the timestamp on the postage. (if the bags are returned to her)
post #34 of 130
I hope so, Kelly. In my opinion, I feel like the USPS is to blame here.
post #35 of 130
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Originally Posted by Cmercury1 View Post
^I agree. Probably buyer's remorse (especially with the boyfriend's part in it), but I think the buyer does have an argument because, technically, the terms of the sale weren't met (timely shipping).
2 days is timely shipping. Paypal allows up to 7 days.
post #36 of 130
I am hoping that is the case! I feel bad for everyone involved
post #37 of 130
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Originally Posted by treasurehoard View Post
2 days is timely shipping. Paypal allows up to 7 days.
I know, but according to lizlikeshugs' original post, welovelouie had agreed to ship by Wednesday so the bags could reach her in time, but they were actually shipped out Sunday. I don't know how this would play into the PayPal claim, but it seems like it could be a reason to not want the item anymore (e.g., if the buyer wanted to use it for a particular event and the event has now passed).
post #38 of 130
Post office isnt open on Sundays though
post #39 of 130
Thread Starter 
I'm trying as much as I could. I just got home from work and I haven't been able to read everything you guys posted. I'll read them right now. I've been spending time to read all the PM's Liz sent me last week... and this is what i found

"lizlikeshugs
Denim Lover Join Date: May 2006
Location: California
Posts: 164
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Re: Hi

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Hi Phi,
Sorry it took so long! I just got off the phone with my friend. She was working until 7pm today instead of 5 or 6 (I think it is to make up for having all of last week off).

So do the bags come with the original dust covers, boxes, any tags/paper/cards/booklets/, and receipts?

Let me know.

Liz


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Originally Posted by welovelouie
I'll do 1500 plus 30 dollars shipping for both of them. The Epi Segur was only used for couple times.... it's in prestine non fault nor defective condition.

If you can come pick them up then 1500 cash deal. Do you by any chance go to Arcadia anymore?

Again, 30 dollars shipping is really needed because i'm really short on cash and I always purchase insurance, i can't afford not to b/c none of us knows what's gonna happen where both bags value retail of 3 thousand dollars ....."
post #40 of 130
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Originally Posted by igawtscammed View Post
Post office isnt open on Sundays though
Hehe, good point. I was just going by Liz's original post.
post #41 of 130
Thread Starter 
not that i'm trying to save 10-15 dollars over the shipping.. but both bags value of 3000 dollars and I agreed to let go of them for 1500 for the buyer because I'm in need for some cash... but buyer only wanted to pay 1500... as for losing more than half of the retail, I didn't really want to lose more on paying for the insurance myself so i thought with delivery confirmation would be fine because we are so close

I also found

lizlikeshugs
Denim Lover Join Date: May 2006
Location: California
Posts: 164
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Re: Hi

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Hi Phi,
Is $1530 the absolute best you can do on both of these bags? I know these bags retailed at nearly $3000, but the thing is, you are most likely selling these bags because you no longer use them or hardly used them in the first place or because you now have another bag in mind you rather have. $1500 is still a great deal of money and you said so in the thread that everyone only wanted the Vanilla Speedy which already sold and not many, if at all, people showed interest in the 2 Epi Noir bags.

Basically what I'm saying, is if you can agree to $1500 flat and send me your Paypal info, I can have the money sent to you within the next minute of you responding.

Liz
post #42 of 130
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Originally Posted by igawtscammed View Post
I think filing a claim after one week is too soon.
And I think its wrong for the friend to change their mind after one week too.. That sounds like buyers remorse to me - Im sorry.
I think it will be two weeks on Monday (correct me if I'm wrong, I don't see an actual date, just an implication of when payment occured) since Liz paid. I'm a really patient person if I'm waiting on a pair of jeans, but if I shelled out $1500, I would be antsy at this point too. However, I definitely agree about the friend. If the bag gets to Liz (or her friend?), I don't think there's really a legitimate reason for her to return it. Buyer's remorse is no excuse. Sometimes mail takes longer than it's supposed to, and you take that chance whether you purchase something from someone on Ebay/HF, or from an online store like Nordstroms or Revolve.
post #43 of 130
Thread Starter 
Jenny told me (becuase I don't ebay and paypal alot, i don't have any experience with them) that best is to way at least after paypal completely withdraw the fund out of her account, then it's safe to send out the items. Basically, we were waiting until the fund, which is a huge amount, to be transfered completely to her checking account and clear from paypal account before we ship out. Is that clear? I don't know if i'm making any sense here
post #44 of 130
ok now i am really confused. you said in your pm to her that you always purchase insurance so why did you choose not to in this case??

*edit, i just saw where you explained this.
post #45 of 130
Thread Starter 
because I was asking Liz to at least help me out with the shipping and the insurance fee because I have already gave her a golden discount over 50% off for both bags, but Liz only want to pay up to 1500 and so honestly i didn't want to pay off my pocket any more money and this never happened before, i never had problem with post office, so i thought delivery confirmation will be just fine. You know what i mean?
post #46 of 130
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Originally Posted by bingothedingo View Post
I think it will be two weeks on Monday (correct me if I'm wrong, I don't see an actual date, just an implication of when payment occured) since Liz paid. I'm a really patient person if I'm waiting on a pair of jeans, but if I shelled out $1500, I would be antsy at this point too. However, I definitely agree about the friend. If the bag gets to Liz (or her friend?), I don't think there's really a legitimate reason for her to return it. Buyer's remorse is no excuse. Sometimes mail takes longer than it's supposed to, and you take that chance whether you purchase something from someone on Ebay/HF, or from an online store like Nordstroms or Revolve.
I kind of lost track of the timeframe - but yes 2 weeks is a very long time for something so expensive..
I dont know where I got 1 week from?
post #47 of 130
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Originally Posted by welovelouie View Post
because I was asking Liz to at least help me out with the shipping and the insurance fee because I have already gave her a golden discount over 50% off for both bags, but Liz only want to pay up to 1500 and so honestly i didn't want to pay off my pocket any more money and this never happened before, i never had problem with post office, so i thought delivery confirmation will be just fine. You know what i mean?
yes i understand now. this whole thing sucks and i really hope it works out for both of you/ the transaction is confusing all the way around with all of the 3rd parties involved!
post #48 of 130
Yeah the insurance fee would be staggering on an item worth $1500
($17 in insurance fees with USPS on that amount)
post #49 of 130
Thread Starter 
to make it simple, we talked, we agreed, she sent payment but i didn't sent out the bags until payments are cleared on Jenny's checking account, so all the talking and clearing fund from paypal account took 1 week. And lastly the shipping (which i dropped off the 27th) is the 2nd week
post #50 of 130
Thread Starter 
No.. I called USPS and i said total value is alittle over 3000 dollars because of tax on both items based on retail too, and the lady said the insurance will be 22 dollars.. plus shipping, so asking 30 dollars i thought was fair to Liz. Basically i wasn't asking for excessive shipping cost to make some extra dimes, i wasn't, i just based on what the lady said on the phone
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