Just to clarify, i have naturally wider hips and my screen name was made to represent a positive/'healthy' view of a naturally curvy figure.. I made that name a long time ago when i was seeking a clutch to positivity to battle the negative perceptions of my 'weight' in my mind and i love the message it promotes.. the idea of pairing a symbol of appreciated, "beauty" with 'hips' in this distorted world where so many young women have lear'nt to hate their body shapes based on fabricated BS! Believe it or not, i am not an advocate for skin and bones and never will be, despite what some people may think.. It hurts to be called 'boney' and 'skeleton'..something some people don't consider (Another example of how distorted things are-when being 'sooo skinny' is seen as a compliment) I do not stand by ANY of the methods i used to cause me to lose my shape and it is very painful to know this disorder goes completely against my idea of 'beautiful'..
I apologize for the rant and i am not attacking anyone directly- Just felt the need to elaborate as the negative comments/emails/IM's on my 'figure' have been relentless and frustrating to read as i try and try to get healthy..
Oh, and to those who have asked why i stopped using HF as much as i did it is because of a lot of this 'abuse' came from apparent (hmm..) members attacking me in emails.. i dont mean to be a lurker, i just like my 'ol HF still just felt the need to distance myself from the negativity for a bit in order to focus on the positive stuff's!..Although i'm sure this post has opened pandora's box! :/
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PS: Lorna, you are insanely cute in those Frankie B's.. Absolutely gorgeous!! xo
I apologize for the rant and i am not attacking anyone directly- Just felt the need to elaborate as the negative comments/emails/IM's on my 'figure' have been relentless and frustrating to read as i try and try to get healthy..
Oh, and to those who have asked why i stopped using HF as much as i did it is because of a lot of this 'abuse' came from apparent (hmm..) members attacking me in emails.. i dont mean to be a lurker, i just like my 'ol HF still just felt the need to distance myself from the negativity for a bit in order to focus on the positive stuff's!..Although i'm sure this post has opened pandora's box! :/
PS: Lorna, you are insanely cute in those Frankie B's.. Absolutely gorgeous!! xo

















