I think what really bothered him is the fact you said the threshold is on w30, whithout giving it much thinking. What about 31? Does that makes them "fat bums" ? If w31 are fat bums, what about 32? how do they get in their small jeans whith thights like that?. And it goes on and on.
Do you really think w36 body is the same as w32. Im 6.2 with w32 and I have a narrow build. Im not that skinny, but my upper body shape is definitely not big, and even kinda narrow. What I means is w32 wont be on 6.2 and on 5.7 the same, evrey one have different kind of bodyshapes.
Take a look at Puhkette pictures, can you say his look is "femmine"?

The model wears size 31, like he always wear on diesel photos.
I wear w32 on thanaz-shioner-thavar, I can easly get in to size 29-30 larkee. Im not wearing them as thigh, I prefer them roomy, but I like the skinny leg( I think skinny means the kind of legs the jeans have and not the shape of a person)
Take the thanaz sizes that gives you the best looking leg and use a belt, it wont be a problem.