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Do women like sensitive/delicate men?

post #1 of 57
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I'm in college and I have a roommate. This guy, he is, to put it simply, very girly. He has more hair products and lotions than any girl, he obsesses about his "acne", and he talks in a very feminine way. However, this guy isn't gay, he's just a straight guy that acts really girly. YET, all the girls love him! For some reason girls can't get enough of him and he's mackin all over the place, while being his really girly, and no offense when i say this, kind of gay self. Does girls like this kind of guy? Because I'm just plain confused..
post #2 of 57
no.
post #3 of 57
YES! they make me giggle
post #4 of 57
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Originally Posted by JulzIsAuthentic View Post
no.
Could not have said it better myself. Sensitive men have always annoyed me with their sniveling.

On edit: I really did not read the first post so I just answered the question in the title. I could never stand the men I used to date that would be sensitive about me not showing them enough affection.
post #5 of 57
I thought we had this conversation, about Nice guys no ?
post #6 of 57
^^The real nice guys always finish last.
post #7 of 57
dude is probably in the friend zone w/ all those chicks
post #8 of 57
friend=yes. boyfriend=NO
post #9 of 57
Considering i'd love to kick his ass, i'd say no, not all girls like that kind of guy!

post #10 of 57
nice guys finish last... and don't get laid.
post #11 of 57
^^ You don't get laid , cos you probably in the friend zone ! like that guy, in the 1st post !
post #12 of 57
a) He may actually be in the closet, don't discount that

b) Despite what you may get from the unscientific sample you see on here, for just about every kind of man that exists, there is a woman (or women) somewhere that craves him for his bizarre, unusual, abnormal, or outlier attribute or attributes. I'm not saying there's tons, but trust me women can be as twisted in their sexual fetishes as men.

c) Although the purely sensitive kind of guy may not be something that most women are interested in, a guy who can be BOTH sensitive and also controlling under certain circumstances is something MANY women are attracted to.
post #13 of 57
Sensitive men suck. Yet somehow I always end up being the less sensitive one in relationships. I think it works if sensitive guys fool you into thinking their more macho.

But very bright, intelligent, insightful men with a wicked sense of humor are hot as can be.

They might be more sensitive seeming than macho guys. Rambo/Conan/Fabio types that are too macho are almost girlier than the sensitive types. Those guys seem gay to me.
post #14 of 57
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Originally Posted by blm14 View Post
a) He may actually be in the closet, don't discount that

b) Despite what you may get from the unscientific sample you see on here, for just about every kind of man that exists, there is a woman (or women) somewhere that craves him for his bizarre, unusual, abnormal, or outlier attribute or attributes. I'm not saying there's tons, but trust me women can be as twisted in their sexual fetishes as men.

c) Although the purely sensitive kind of guy may not be something that most women are interested in, a guy who can be BOTH sensitive and also controlling under certain circumstances is something MANY women are attracted to.
(A ) is what I was going to guess....
post #15 of 57
girls like guys who are aggressive enough to sodomize them but also sensitive enough to cuddle afterwards
post #16 of 57
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^^ You don't get laid , cos you probably in the friend zone ! like that guy, in the 1st post !
i'm a jerk and I get laid all the time.
post #17 of 57
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Originally Posted by fncestudent View Post
girls like guys who are aggressive enough to sodomize them but also sensitive enough to cuddle afterwards
QFT
post #18 of 57
I tend to have better "luck" than my "nice" friends. I have one guy who hates me because of it. I always put it on a little extra when he's around just be an asshole.

I don't care how many times you've heard it, it's true! Women love assholes. Now whether they'll marry the asshole is a whole other issue...but the asshole won't care because he's an asshole.


(edit) fncestudent's post was perfect for this thread!
post #19 of 57
There is someone for everyone.
Some people are made for each other, some people deserve each other.

Tommy, you are my favourite big buffoon.
post #20 of 57
I love assholes.
post #21 of 57
Yeah like has been said, theres always someone for everyone.
I think a good mix between the 2 is what is best, sensitive when needs to be and manly the rest of the time, but i agree with ben he could be in the closet.
post #22 of 57
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Originally Posted by begret View Post
There is someone for everyone.
Some people are made for each other, some people deserve each other.

Tommy, you are my favourite big buffoon.
I love you too!
post #23 of 57
I have been tricked a time or two by the "sensitive man." At first, it's like, wow!, here's a guy who can carry an interesting conversation and who seems genuinely interested in what I have to say. He is thoughful, caring, his hair is soft, and he smells really good, BUT

then I realize that nothing is ever good enough for this guy! I don't pay enough attention to him or spend enough time with him, I didn't notice his haircut, I never want to cuddle, blah, blah, blah...! Worst of all, he cries about it because he is so sensitive! Then I have to try not to laugh because this is all just getting a bit ridiculous.

Pretty soon, I find myself in a relationship with someone who can't stand on his own and needs to smother me because of it! I have always attracted that kind of guy...

I don't like this role reversal stuff. I'd much rather do the crying and have the non-sensitive guy who is standing there befuddled and confused because he can't figure out what is wrong. There is some comfort in that for me.

I wouldn't say I love assholes, cause that gets old quick, too! Unless they are good at mind games, then, sadly, the lust can thrive for awhile.

Anyway, as with most things in life, a happy-medium is best for me!

Edit: Had to come back and plus ya fncestudent!
post #24 of 57
It's funny how all of you typed this guy out to be sensitive when all kakakakey said was that he acts girly. How do you know hes not an asshole that just so happens to be a lil feminine? Assholes can care about their acne and hair products. I wouldn't the first to say, hair products are just as important to guys as they are to girls. It's all about the got to be glue.

Having said that,

It's important for both men and women in a relationship to be stable mentally and emotionally so that the other half doesn't carry all the weight and ends up being smothered.
post #25 of 57
Weird enough, it has been scientificly proven that senstivite men, coupled with low self-esteem are more prone to agression and violence later on in a relationship.
Ladies, you've been warned.
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