I have been tricked a time or two by the "sensitive man." At first, it's like, wow!, here's a guy who can carry an interesting conversation and who seems genuinely interested in what I have to say. He is thoughful, caring, his hair is soft, and he smells really good, BUT
then I realize that nothing is ever good enough for this guy! I don't pay enough attention to him or spend enough time with him, I didn't notice his haircut, I never want to cuddle, blah, blah, blah...! Worst of all, he cries about it because he is so sensitive! Then I have to try not to laugh because this is all just getting a bit ridiculous.
Pretty soon, I find myself in a relationship with someone who can't stand on his own and needs to smother me because of it! I have always attracted that kind of guy...
I don't like this role reversal stuff. I'd much rather do the crying and have the non-sensitive guy who is standing there befuddled and confused because he can't figure out what is wrong. There is some comfort in that for me.
I wouldn't say I love assholes, cause that gets old quick, too! Unless they are good at mind games, then, sadly, the lust can thrive for awhile.
Anyway, as with most things in life, a happy-medium is best for me!
Edit: Had to come back and plus ya fncestudent!