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drama-rama


Edited by Annie2venus - 3/13/12 at 8:36pm
post #2 of 31
awww :/ tell him to delete you from his tardcell... o_O;
or better yet get your stuff back, and chuck his cell into a lake
post #3 of 31
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I'd


Edited by Annie2venus - 3/13/12 at 8:33pm
post #4 of 31
i say you meet him to get your stuff back and after he's given you all your stuff back you kick him in the mcnuggets, hard
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I'm sorry. I had a D-bag guy do similar crap to me once. I vented on HF b/c it was the most available outlet, and I really had some jerks (Dweckl) tear into ME over it (when this guy was cheating on me with an 18 year old skank!

Long story short, I was really pissed at him forever, but now we talk and can get along. I know that that's way down the road for you IF that day comes, but it's completely okay to be really angry with someone, especially when they do you an injustice. It'll get better though!
post #6 of 31
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i say you meet him to get your stuff back and after he's given you all your stuff back you kick him in the mcnuggets, hard
i second this. make it seem like you're going in for a hug; they seem to be most vulnerable then.
post #7 of 31
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Originally Posted by Annie2venus View Post
I'd like to chuck his 40 inch LCD screen TV that I contributed 1K to.

Nevermind the other money I lent to him as an ATM that I will never get back.

My friend theorizes he sent that message to me intentionally.
and this is the most fucked up thing i've ever heard. if you lent him money, he HAS to pay it back, bad history or no. threaten legal action and if you have any friends in law school, have them back you up on this.

(i've seen way too many Judge Judys...)

hope everything works out
post #8 of 31
I bet he sent that text on purpose to you. I bet he hasnt got a girlfriend really and just wanted to make you jealous. Men are idiots like that

Anyway you are much too good for him and are better off without him. Plenty more fish in the sea - go have fun!
post #9 of 31
Ha ha just read what you said about your friend - she's smart as well!
post #10 of 31
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and this is the most fucked up thing i've ever heard. if you lent him money, he HAS to pay it back, bad history or no. threaten legal action and if you have any friends in law school, have them back you up on this.

(i've seen way too many Judge Judys...)

hope everything works out
The only way she can legally recover any money is if they entered into some kind of written contract, and there needs to be evidence of such (like a check with the memo blank filled in "Loan to Joe for TV" or something like that). Even Judge Judy won't let people recover money when one person in a relationship has spent it on expenses as part of the relationship. It's a hard lesson to learn. I know. I would estimate I probably spent 5-10K on a live-in boyfriend who I dated for 4 years who then cheated on me for the last year of our relationship. Never doing that again.

Boys are assholes. At least he's really pissing you off right now so you're not tempted to go back to him or anything like that.
post #11 of 31
^wow. i'm so sorry what an ass!

hmm however, this is very useful advice for the future and how my relationship is currently heading (via "your money is my money")
post #12 of 31
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Since


Edited by Annie2venus - 3/13/12 at 8:34pm
post #13 of 31
You are right not to text him back. I hate mindgames.

Have you got a mutual friend who can get your stuff back from him?
post #14 of 31
He is a L-O-S-E-R. I'm glad you are rid of him
post #15 of 31
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You are right not to text him back. I hate mindgames.

Have you got a mutual friend who can get your stuff back from him?

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Edited by Annie2venus - 3/13/12 at 8:34pm
post #16 of 31
^^LOL very descriptive, +1 Annie
post #17 of 31
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Since it ended he's been texting me, sometimes he'll say he misses me terribly, sometimes he'll call me a whore, sometimes he'll try to call me. I haven't bothered replying. He is dead to me..
maybe he's bipolar? i had this boss who was extremely happy one second, then another second, he was mad yelling at my coworkers..either way, your better off
post #18 of 31
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Edited by Annie2venus - 3/13/12 at 8:34pm
post #19 of 31
Stick a hockey stick up his arse - that will hurt!!
post #20 of 31
I don't get the text? But glad you let him go. Don't let him get the best of you (i.e. get you pissed off). -1 for all the asshole ex's in the world.
post #21 of 31
Go to a gun range if you can find one. I haven't been but I really want to try. I hear it's awesome.

The dbag sounds like a total basket case... is he the girl and you're the guy in this case? lmao.
Props for not returning txts. A+!
post #22 of 31
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i say you meet him to get your stuff back and after he's given you all your stuff back you kick him in the mcnuggets, hard
You took those words right out of my mouth!!!
post #23 of 31
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i say you meet him to get your stuff back and after he's given you all your stuff back you kick him in the mcnuggets, hard

that should do the trick!! ^^LMAO

im sorry that this happened to you, i wish you the best!
post #24 of 31
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Stick a hockey stick up his arse - that will hurt!!
Yup, and twist it so you get him in the nuts as well!

Your ex sounds like a total LOSER, who needs to get a life. Just think of your past relationship as a lesson. STAY STRONG! and don't reply to his text, telephone calls etc. Don't dwell in the past, this guy is not worth wasting any more of your time or energy. Just look forward to the future and eventually you will meet the right guy. CHIN UP!
post #25 of 31
I think he sent the text on purpose as well. And I'm so glad to hear that you are not responding to his calls/texts. I hate to see girls get involved with that back and forth. No should mean no and you shouldn't be telling guys you don't want to see them again yet keep contacting them.
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