Originally Posted by mommaoftwo
I don't think the "sex toy" drawer is really embarrassing, within some certainty people know it exists...it's the unexpected that's embarrassing.
Pretty much any healthy sexually active adult is going to have some kind of sex toys or porn. This isn't embarassing really.
I suffered this situation in reverse once. I was about 12 years old and was going through my mum's sock drawer to get a pair of stockings (which she had let me do before) and I found a funny rubber thing that looked like a dick with veins on it and all, but had batteries in it (remember I didn't know what a vibrator was) and a bunch of polaroids. I shouldn't have looked but I couldn't look away. You know what it's like when you are just so horrified that you're mesmerised. It was like that
As I went through the photos (again, remember I was only 12 when anything other than missionary sex with no foreplay seems revolting) they got worse and worse
The first one was a photo of my mother laying across the kitchen bench. She was laying on her side with her bottom elbow bent so that her hand could prop up her head. She was nekkid and trying to look seductive I guess but she had a apple in her mouth like a pig.
I had trouble eating food served from that bench for the next month, which really sucked since we ate there every night.
The next was a picture of my Dad standing like a soldier at attention only his soldier was also at full attention.
The next was a close up of said soldier.
The rest were just more and more compromising photos that involved the funny rubber dickybird as a prop. I can't bear to think of my parents doing those things with that prop. It wasn't pretty, not pretty at all!