I was/is in the same boat as you. We have pm'd a few times. As one stricken with anorexia too, I know the downfalls and struggles as fluctuating or dropped hormone levels. When hubby and I wanted kids, I knew that all my years of fighting anorexia took its toll on my fertility. I went years with no period which made it frustrating especially hearing people say, "Oh, it'll happen" when w/o a period and ovulation it won't.
Or people would say, you need to gain weight and fatten up...the LAST thing a person with an eating disorder wants to hear. I had to resort to fertility drugs...daily injections in my abdomen to get pregnant. Definately not a fun way to plan a pregnancy, but it was successful. I guess not all that bad. The shots were not too bad, just expensive. I call my son the 3 thousand dollar baby
But...watch out if you do have to use fertility meds...multiples occur. I was pregnant with twins until 3 months of pregnancy.
PM me with any questions...I have been through it all too! You are doing your best and trust me when you want a baby, there are wonderful scientific methods. Stay strong