i kinda feel bad though...like i'm partially responsible for all this. i knew that tension was almost inevitable when you throw a stereotypical gay guy, a girl, and a guy who has a crush on the girl together and isn't very good at handling social pressure. it's like a bizarre love triangle, but not really because the gay guy loves the girl except for the sex part.
i have nothing against gay people, but i've now made the decision that i don't like this guy AT ALL. 2 simple reasons:
1. he doesn't respect people's boundaries, e.g. going into my room to use my tv and dvd player and computer without my permission.
2. he fucking speaks spanish ALL THE FUCKING TIME with the girl while we're in the same room. that is just rude. if you listened to that 60 second clip, i'm guessing they were talking about foreign languages probably because either the bossman or the girl confronted the issue of not speaking english with other people around. however, the bossman just left the scene, and i was in the kitchen again and he's still talking in fucking spanish.
another reason, but not as big as those 2, is that this guy is fucking racist against blacks. it's too complicated to explain, but basically, all 4 of us were in the room talking and the gay guy and i were talking and his rantings were obviously racist, and the 3 of us were like uh wtf and looking at each giving that wtf look.
i predict a week before the bossman confronts me about what i think about gayman. when he asks, i'll tell him everything in this post.