I love you meow, and you sense of humor and what not, but I am dead sick of this mess. I'm sure lots of people are. The people deeply involved in it are tired, and do not want to talk about it any more.
Shit happens. People fuck up. No one is perfect.
There are two way to deal with this, IMO. Keep rehashing it and dredging up old bad feelings, or freaking drop it and leave everyone alone.
Sorry about the orderline NCC, but I am freaking sick of every single...